Friday, June 11, 2010

Pooping in Trees....

Could NOT resist posting what happend the other day. For picture to help with story see picture in previous post with trees planted a little off the ground outside our apartment - with marble seating area around it!

Well, last week we spent a LOT of time just letting Cash run around these trees while I tried to get a little rest in the shade of them since he was sick and we couldn't go many other places. He loved just running around them in the grass and playing.

2 days while coming back from Wal-Mart (the chinese one) we were walking and I saw and AYI out with a little girl - she had her pants down and as I got closer I realized......she was having her "poo poo" (as they say here) right underneath the very tree we had previously been playing under the day before! Gross! No wonder that we are sick here huh?

With all the unsanitary things they have their kids do here - such as peeing in the sandboxes, wearing the split pants around, etc etc airborne illnesses run rampant here in the summer - I am grateful for sanitary conditions of the US and not having these types of experiences normally!

However, as I walked inside i was actually chuckling to myself at just how different it really is here, and the many things we have been fortunate/or unfortuanate as it may be, to experience. A total adventure, and when I look at it like that I smile and can find happiness in this journey!

Today was cooler and Cash and I walked a half hour to a friends house to play. Altho humid, the breeze felt great and I was happy to just be gettin gout and for the exercise. On our walk we saw an older gentlman wearing the split pants (sometime I will get a picture of this), tons of little kids in split pants, and a woman wearing a see-through white skirt with NO underwear on!

What a unique experience it is each day - always something to surprise us!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Trying to Stay Positive....


After travelling back to the US and enjoying once again a life of luxury and comfort in the country I love and claim citizenship, it was hard for us to come back to China and get excited about being here. There are just so many things we miss about home!

Also, the fact that 90% of our time here either Cash or I have been sick with something has not helped, and since we been back Cash has been super sick, and it has been really frustrating!

However, I am trying to turn over a new leaf and only be a "half glass full" type person from now on and so am going to post things I like or am grateful for or find fun here for the remainder of our stay....(which pretty much means i will leave out all posts about medical care and worries about delivering here since that I don't find so much a positive thing here --- one side note - i learned they will not turn the AC on in hospital rooms here too high because they believe that if you have just given birth and are too cold it will give you hot flashes in menopause!!! HELLO weirdos - there is NO correlation i am sure! Also, I am delivering in JULY, the hottest month here and i will DEMAND a fan or some type of cooling device!!!)

Anyways, when we arrived back here it actually was really pretty and so I wanted to post a picture of what our place looks like from our window once spring arrived - it is actually still really green and pretty! For this I am grateful! Happy day!


Monday, June 7, 2010

Lost in Translation.....or sometimes NOT!

Getting a tailor out here to make something for you is a bit of a risk! You might get someone who is way cheap and does an absolutely FABULOUS job, or you might get someone who is cheap but does a TERRIBLE job, or you might get someone who is expensive and does either great or terrible!

Let's just say it is a risk you have to be willing to take if you want stuff done for you the way you want it!

I LOVE designing dresses and stuff and so was really excited about finding a tailor here that would be awesome and make stuff for me for super cheap but quality items. After numerous recommendations and research, I finally settled on Tailor Chen - who came highly recommended from people in my branch here in Beijing! He was a little more pricey, but supposedly the best for if you wanted to create your own designs and have him make them!

Well, as he doesn't speak English much, you can expect there were some things that got "lost in translation"! However, it wasn't at all like I expected. The whole thing was a bit of a mess as he quoted me one price, and then when it was time to pay tried to tell me it was way more than the original price! My friend ended up getting in a shouting match with him over some matters, to which I feel extremely bad Ash for making you do that since I couldn't speak or understand him - altho I am happy she did because we realized in the end he was just trying to rip us off!

This is the tactic that the chinese use here - they tell you a price and then try to tell you that it is better quality, or took way longer, or cost more than they thought, and they try to bully you by shouting at you and getting in your face and making you feel bad and so you will just pay for it. When she told him that he wasn't being fair and that he quoted us a different price he said: "well her husband probably works for a big compnay and makes a lot of money so it isn't even a big deal to them if it is a little more - just tell her to pay it!"

OK NO!!!! It is not about the actual price, it is the principle Mr. Chen that you said one thing and then tried to make us pay more - I probably would have still had him do it for the higher price had he quoted it originally, but because of this I wasn't about to pay him a bunch more, especially for something that was COMPLETELY wrong, as you are about to see.

He really got upset when I said I wasn't paying at all - as in $0 - for one dress and vest that he completely made wrong! I mean, not a SINGLE line was right about it from the picture I gave him, and so I didn't want it. In the end he just gave me the dress and vest because he said he couldn't do anything with it and I kept it to show how off it was from the original item I asked for. However, I did meet him in the middle and pay a little more for Chip's shirt and the other dress since he was causing such a ruckus.

All in all, I feel I won the battle, probably will NEVER use him again because of his poor business etiquette and how off he made the one, altho the bag and the other dress did work out! He said that he didn't understand the one dress because of a translation error and that I hadn't shown him the picture I pulled up at my house - but I showed him my email history and proved him wrong, and I know my friend translation didn't get it this off - that is another tactic they pull - that it is my fault do to translation - WHATEVER!!!!

So anyways - here is the 3 things that we had him make - and you will see for yourself that some things, just from pictures alone, can not possibly be translation errors!
First - my loved my Vera Bradley diaper bag (mine is orange) and so had him make one for her with Vera Bradley fabric we picked up from the fabric market - it turned out AWESOME, but he did charge her more than he originally said, and told us he needed twice as much fabric next time to make the same bags! Hello - you made this one with the fabric we gave you - why would we give you more next time- so you can keep it and make others to sell! So yeah, we found another person who can make them just as well and not cheat us out of money or fabric! It does look awesome tho!



OK this is dress #1: I gave him the picture of the wedding dress on the left and told him i wanted it made exactly like this dress, but with the flower strap taken off and just little straps put on and then with NO train since it was going to be for prom and then the awesome bolero jacket (picture of this not included here) that came with it done in the same green fabric! He said he could do it! Well, below is the dress he brought over - you will see NOT A SINGLE line is correct - from the weird mermaid bust top, to the 8 panelled dress/skirt that is nothing like the pictures, without the flowers on the seam by the knee, and just entirely hideous!!! When i saw it I said I hated it and he tried to say it was still a nice dress and that it would work even if it weren't my first choice - I said I wouldn't have my sister wear this no matter what anyways, as I hated it - and in the end he just gave it to me.................after also trying to charge me more because he said he used more fabric than I gave him! I know this is a lie too as I took it to a different place later in the markets and asked how much fabric was used and they told me an amount considerably less than what I had given him!

Anyhow, I took it home to show my sis and get a good laugh, and yet when she put it on she actually made it look good, and with a little fixing from Grammy Rosen they like it and she got a free dress for the next dance! Pretty much she can rock any dress, and so in the end we win again!


Here is a picture of Kimmy and Cash is wearing the jacket he gave me, which was NOTHING at all like the picture and something that will end up getting chucked in the trash, but Cash loved putting it on with Kimmy and posing for the picture!



Finally - Dress #2!!! This one was more complex I thought then the previous, as I gave him 3 different picture of dresses that I wanted all combined, and then with some explicit instructions of my own changes that I wanted incorporated, and yet somehow he got this one way more close! It turned out beautiful on her, and altho it had to be altered by our fabulous dressmaker Maryanne in Utah before she could wear it - it worked out and she looked gorgeous in a one-of-a-kind dress for prom!

I designed the jewelry and belt too and had them made at the pearl market out here - and they turned out FABULOUS!!!! We were really happy with this one, and it somewhat redeemed the other bad taste I had gotten from the previous one!
Kimmy in the yellow prom dress


The sleeves were a little bigger and gapey than I had designed, but she looked awesome in it anyways! Maryanne was able to fix them a bit too!


Twirling and having fun!


A couple from the actual night - she looked GORGEOUS and had so many compliments and I hope she felt like a princess the whole night - she certainly is beautiful and the color was amazing on her!



Heading out!


Needless to say, I am NOT having him try any ballroom dresses for me, altho I have 8 designed and have found some of the coolest fabrics out here ever - I am having Maryanne sew them as they are super complex and hard, and I want them fitted perfectly to Kimmy and to not get ruined like what may happen here!

While I was in Utah I actually made a latin one - the first one I designed out here - with help from my mom and Maryanne!!! Let's just say that it was WAY MORE WORK than I thought and after numerous needles breaking on the machine, problems fitting certain parts together, sleeves getting cut off, and over 100 fittings on Kim to see how it was coming I have decided to just stick to designing and then rhinestoning myself, and having Maryanne make them for me! That will assure they are right! However, the one I did make is coming along great and I can't wait to post pics of the finished product - I am just hemming it and working on the rhinestones right now! Stay tuned for the pics of that to come soon!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

CAN"T HANDLE THIS!!!!

So I have been lucky to have escaped Cash getting too sick at all for his almost 2 years of life!
However, since Monday we have been dealing with the worst cough and runny nose, combined with his first vomit episode, and a few other dry heave episodes of mucus and junk from the cold!

It is horrible, and i have gotten less than 8 hours of sleep total in the past 3 nights! i think I am really going to go crazy if it doesn't turn around soon and I don't get my good sleeper/happy son back!

Any ideas on how to cure this faster - the cold is caused by pollution here!
I don't think i can make it much longer!

Monday, May 31, 2010

Trip Back to the US 2010

Cash and I left for Utah on May 3. We had a great trip, and my only regret is not taking hardly ANY pictures, and the fact that it wasn't long enough. We were there for 12 days and then we flew to AZ to meet Chip and hang with the Browns.

Unfortunately we all got sick for most the week there, but we still had a great time seeing family - altho once again it wasn't long enough time there either! However, we did get to enjoy Heidi's mission farewell talk, hang out for a bit with her before she left, and get a family photo with the ENTIRE family (been awhile since this happened). It was really hot, so only a couple takes, and of course being 32 weeks pregnant here is not ideal for me, but oh well!

Both Chip and I felt the trip wasn't long enough and had little desire to leave and come back to China, altho we do like it here and now we are back it is fine - but boy do we miss our families and wish we could see them more --- so plan your visits over here ya'll before the fall!

Thanks for having us - I feel I have the 2 best families ever!

The trip home, however, was a complete disaster - we sat on the plane in SF for 2 hours before being unloaded and told we had to wait another 3 hours to board a new plane. This caused us to miss our flight in Korea and get stuck in the airport hotel overnight - our 18 hour trip turned into a 40 hour LONG LONG LONG trip!!!! UGH!!!!

Thankfully we have such a great little son who travels so well and is always happy, and managed to escape getting the flu bug too we all had - so that made it better! I hope to never have another flight schedule like that again in life tho!

The entire Brown Family - LOVE these guys!

Cute Missionary Heidi with Betty and Charlie - so sad you got sick the first 2 days in the MTC!

Aunt Hannah with niece Adella and nephew Cohen - Cash was running away!

Grandpa and Grandma with the 3 grandkids - what a feat! Also, note Cohen is the yongest of the 3 but bigger than both the others - he is going to be one big boy - I hope Cash can catch up some day!

The Brown family with no in-laws --- what a great looking and awesome group of people!

Our little family of 3, soon to be 4!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Only A First Time Mom Would Brag About This!

So I am officially nesting (not the part I am braggin about)! But anyways - since I have been back in Beijing (story of trip to come soon) I have been in a cleaning/organizing frenzy. I unloaded my suitcases the day after we got home (record for me as usually it takes at least a minimum of a week to do this), got all Cash's winter clothes put away, got out all the baby stuff, and organized my closet and our other big closet with all our storage items - feels great to be organized!

Today, as I was doing the biggest closet Cash came in and grabbed my hand. He dragged me into the bathroom and pointed at the toilet. At first I was a bit confused, thinking he had thrown another something into it - but after looking and seeing nothing I then realized - he said "pee pee". What? I said to myself - this is a joke - i am NOT even trying to potty train right now - I figure he isn't even 2 yet, and it is much easier in China to just have him in diapers then try, so was going to wait til we get home in the fall to try anything. However, I obliged him and let him get up and sit on the toilet. To my shock - he actually went - he then said "poop" and preceded to pop one out! Total shock, and total elation to for me - maybe he is going to just potty train himself without much coaching! I am not sure if it will happen again any time soon - but a fun mommy moment!

Anyways - he is SO MUCH fun and I just want to document a few of my other favorite things he is saying/doing:

He has started answering in the affirmative now when he wants to say yes: He actually just says "uh huh" and it is so cute and fun that I know he actually does like or want something!

He LOVES when his daddy comes home and jumps up and down and gets SO excited! He always wants to go outside with him!

He says "beijing" when you ask where we live!
When he sees airplanes he says "airplanes, arizona"!
When I say grammy he says "grammy's, otterpops!" (he loved those at my moms)

He love his VAN shoes Aunt Emma gave him and says "new shoes" and then points at the laces and says "butterflies"! He likes to try tying them too!

When we ask him what the baby's name will be he says "Cooper"! This is because Linds baby is named Cooper and I talk about him and we saw him in Utah - he won't say any other name!

He likes to give the baby kisses on my belly and say baby!

He LOVES to help clean and is a fun little sidekick to have when doing chores.....most the time!

He likes to wear his sunglasses here and the people go NUTS over him! He even wore them the entire time we were getting sushi inside the restaurant - the waitresses kept coming over just to look at him!

He is the best little travel buddy and did great on our 40 hour excursion home even when I wanted to scream for a LOT of it - always happy and excited about life!

He loves to ask for Muchi and Sam - 2 of his favorite people, and whenever we pass a school and I say "school" he starts to wave and says "muchi, school; muchi, school" and looking for her!

He gives me lots of kisses and makes me so happy each day - and I can only hope the next child is as great and happy as he is! He has a lot to live up to!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

It has been over 15 years since................

I GOT THE STOMACHE 24 hours flu bug!!!

We are in AZ, enjoying family vacation and having a blast, and I wake up on Monday with everything feeling fine! Go for my 2 mile walk, come back, go visit my grandparents, come back, go swimming with my sisters and Chip and Cash, come home, feeling a little sick so I eat lunch --- and then it gets BAD!!!

My stomach started hurting worse and worse and writhing in pain and NOTHING was fixing it. I even took a nausea pill I have for pregnancy, which normally works within 15 minutes and to no avail! I tried everything to get comfortable, only to have it get worse. Finally, I got in the shower and let the water just run over my back while I sat on the floor, but that didn't help either. I just felt worse and worse til finally I knew it wasn't going to get any better until..............
I threw up!!!!

Anyone who really knows me well knows I am afraid of vomit! i can NOT handle when someone else does it, can't stand the sound of it, the sight, or worst of all the smell, and I get really scared when I think I am going to throw up -- yeah, some mom I am huh? Good thing Cash has never had a single episode of this yet (knock on wood as Chip woke up this morning with what i think i had - so Cash might be next)

Anyways, I threw up, and after I realized it really wasn't so bad - and I even felt SO MUCH BETTER!!! I thought maybe I just ate bad food, but figured soon enough that was wrong. After 45 minutes I was back to feeling awful, and after 2 more vomit episodes so that I was actually just dry heaving and in so much pain i wanted to die I really was wondering if I might survive the day!

Anyways, to make a long story short, and spare you all the gross details of everything, I did end up making it and the next day felt much better. I am just worried now that Chip and Cash will get it, and Chip woke up this morning feeling sick - Charlie his dad got it at 3 am --- so I am praying that Cash doesn't get it!

Also, I hope it is more than 15 years again before it ever comes back - becuase being pregnant made it just that much WORSE!!!!

I HATE THE FLU!!!